Netizen Shares Four-Page Wedding Dowry List Of Their Bua From 1993; Internet Reacts

Netizen took to Reddit and shared a four-page dowry list from 1993 that was allegedly given at her bua’s wedding

Dowry has been a deep-rooted problem in Indian society for generations. It started as a way to give gifts to the bride for her new life, but over time, it turned into a demand placed on the bride’s family by the groom’s side. This demand often puts a huge financial burden on the family of the girl, making weddings a stressful and difficult affair. Even though dowry is now illegal, the practice hasn’t completely gone away. It still exists in many parts of the country, sometimes openly, and sometimes hidden behind the name of “gifts” or “tradition.”

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A recent Reddit post brought this issue back into the spotlight. A user shared a four-page-long dowry list that was given during his bua’s (aunt’s) marriage in 1993. The list was detailed and showed just how much was expected from the bride’s family.

It wasn’t just gold or clothes, it included everyday items like glassware, plates, spoons, ladles, chakla belan, along with furniture like a sofa, bed, and dressing table.

Even electronics like a fridge, sandwich maker, and iron were part of the list. Apart from this women’s cosmetics and jewels were also a part of the list.

While weddings should be about happiness and celebration, people have always made it a financial burden.  Unfortunately, families with daughters often feel forced to meet these demands just to avoid shame or rejection. This recent post is a testament to it which quickly went viral and got many people talking.

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This shocking four-page dowry list was shared by a user with the username @silently_reading2. Shared four days ago, the post quickly went viral, so far generating 3.2K likes and over 1K comments.

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My Bua’s Dowry, 1993
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Here is how netizens have been reacting to the post

Soon after the Reddit post featuring the 1993 dowry list went viral, netizens took to the comment section to share their thoughts, ranging from sarcastic takes to deeply emotional stories. While some reacted with disbelief and humor at the long list of items, others opened up about the painful realities of dowry practices they had witnessed in their own families.

Several users recalled heartbreaking incidents from the past, including cases where women were harassed or even killed over unmet dowry demands. Stories of loss, injustice, and the long-lasting impact of such traditions quickly turned the comment section into a powerful space of reflection.

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