16 Signs You’re Dating The Guy You’re Going To Grow Old With

Love is an over hyped word. One can fall in love with any people in his/her lifetime. In fact, a girl can also fall in love with different guys, at the same time or at different phases of her lifetime. This article is specially for those girls who are unable to make up their minds or just need some confirmation that things are going the right way. Girls are over emotional and end up assessing every action of guys, thereby, over thinking. However, guys mostly think in black or white and do not give much thought to their actions being analysed or scrutinized till the last thread. So, keeping aside all those behavioural patterns which the girls further complicate into thinking.

Here are some points that would ascertain that the guy you are dating is the one for you. If he does most of the below mentioned things, he is for keeps!

1. Be with you

He will do everything possible to spend some time with you. Whether it involves managing his own work/ family or friends or even convincing you to take out time for him. But all he would want is to spend some quality time with you.

2. Try to make the relationship successful

From talking care of little things that make it work to taking initiative in patching things up after a fight, he would try his best to make this relationship go in the right direction i.e. towards forever.

3. Pay attention to you

He would listen to you and notice every little thing you do, say or express, which is one of the most important things that you expect from a man. He would watch you doing things and make you feel loved every bit. He would remember your tiny little things as well, because he always pays close attention to you.

4. Jealousy

A little bit of jealousy is a must to ensure that the guy is insecure and has a fear of losing you. He would get a tad bit jealous whenever you would talk about/ to another guy. Not in a psychotic manner, but just in the right amount to make you feel important.

5. Future planning

He would want to discuss his future with you. Now just what he aims to do but also how he would want you to be a part of it too. He would share with you his money matters, health issues, long term planning of the future including his dreams, aspirations, kids, his family members, relatives and friends. He would also welcome suggestions and inputs by you regarding them.

6. Ignores his phone

Considering how big a necessity a mobile phone is now days, your guy would only concentrate on you when together. He would give his phone some break and would want to cherish every second spent with you and would prioritise you.

7. Values your values

He would understand and respect where you come from, your past and what you plan to do in future. He would value your aspirations and dreams and help you in every way to achieve those.

8. Keep you happy

As general as this sounds, what it means is keep you happy in the most simplest of ways. He would make sure that you always smiled and never cried and most importantly he would make sure that he would never be the reason of your tears. He would try his best to cheer you up when down and out because he would give anything to see you happy.

9. He would compliment you

We all know how we girls love being complimented on everything, be it our looks, dressing, cooking and work. Your guy would leave no stone unturned in making you feel special by complimenting you quite often. It is just a couple of words but those words are so magical that they can make your day!

10. Instantly replies

He prioritises you over everything and replies to your messages instantly. It not only makes you feel worthy but also very important in his life. He would not keep you waiting for his reply and would try his best to respond as soon as possible. It only shows how important you are to him.

11. Shows a lot of concern

If done within limits, it only reinforces that he is so much in love with you that a little bit of worry is understood. Things like giving him a call when you reach your destination safely, making sure you eat properly on times when you don’t want to, taking time out to talk to you when you really need it or asking about your day, really go a long way in showing his love.

12. Forever friend

He is there for you, all the time, even at 2 a.m. And you are comfortable in sharing or talking about everything to him. He is like a best friend with whom you can always talk about anything under the sun and want to keep doing more of it. And he would also want to be there for you, forever.

13. You can be yourself in front of him

You can be yourself in front of him, as messy, as clumsy or as laidback as you want to without the fear of being judged. There are very few people who would not judge you for your weird habits and your life partner should definitely be one of them. Because if you can’t be yourself and always have to fake a personality then what is the point of doing that your whole life!

14. You love his company

If you love to be with him and he also tries his best to make you love his presence, then he is the one. He would not only want to impress you or enlighten your mood with his humour, but also do his best to keep you engaged and drawn to him.

15. You love making memories

If you love doing new things, being adventurous and making memories together, you know that he also wants to grow old with you. He wants to keep all the moments close to his heart forever and creates lots of opportunities for the both of you to do so.

16. Silence speaks

If he conveys and understands everything by not saying anything, he is the chosen one to be your life partner girl! You must never be bored in his company and even without talking you both would still end up spending cherished time together. There comes a point in a relationship when you don’t say a word but just the presence of the other person makes you feel complete. At that time, no words are necessary and only souls do the talking.

So if your man has most of the above mentioned traits, do not let him go! It is rare to find such kind of love that you can spend your whole life with. You will come across many people in your life and fall in love many a times, but when you find someone who shows these characteristics, your search is complete.

Also read: 12 Easy Ways To Attract Men And Keep Them Interested