What is virgin? The word is in general understood to refer to someone who never had a sex. There are number of myths about virginity that exists even in today’s world. It is one of the most overrated and most uneducated concept of society. Most of the things you know about losing your virginity is wrong. Things discussed, gossiped about and portrayed in the media, there are a lot of misconceptions floating about virginity.
The myth has propagated long by our ancestors, who think talking about sexuality to their children is not good. But, finally we have moved towards societal evolution.
Lets debunk all those myths about virginity and become informed and educated:
1. It will hurt like hell as well as make you bleed
The definition of sex changes from person to person. One can bleed a lot during their first time, while some don’t at all. And yeah its true it will hurt a bit, but it won’t last forever, once the girl’s body will get accustomed with the situation it becomes more enjoyable and then there comes the orgasm part.
2. One can judge your virginity by hymen
Hymen is a very thin membrane, which lies at the entrance of vagina and scientifically it doesn’t prove your virginity. It is a delicate tissue which can easily gets teared if one is much into sports or does cycling, gymnastics etc. So, breaking of hymen has nothing to do with losing one’s virginity.
3. You can lose your virginity only once
Our society made us believe that a girl can only lose virginity only once. You can lose it again, and again, and again. Yes, that may sound impossible, but it is true. Because if you had sex once or twice and you didn’t experienced you had hoped for, you can take what you learned and wait for it. There is nothing like which can only be done once when it comes to virginity.
4. One’s vagina loosen up after losing virginity
It’s a complete myth that losing your virginity makes your vagina loose only natural child birth and aging can make it a bit alter which is natural.
5. Using tampon makes you lose your virginity
Tampon is more like a soaking pad which soaks the blood when women bleed it doesn’t make any girl lose its virginity. And it is not a pleasure of object at all.
6. You are not virgin if you masturbate
Masturbation help in exhaling exasperation not makes the one loses her virginity. It relaxes one’s body, through which one can quench her thirst; this has nothing to do with the concept of losing virginity.
7. Being virgin after a certain age is not cool
Don’t listen what others say, be it 18 or 36, it’s your age it’s your life; you don’t want to regret your whole life by just having it with someone whom you don’t love right? There is nothing wrong in not wanting to have sex.
8. Virginity has nothing to do with one’s purity
I don’t understand from where this notion came that having sex makes you impure. It is a process of reproduction and cannot be impure even when done for pleasure. Being virgin doesn’t make you pure neither its absence makes you impure. Virginity is a stage in life, purity is forever.
9. Yes, virgins can also get pregnant
Yes a girl can get pregnant at the very first go, it’s a myth that a virgin cannot get pregnant at the very first attempt. When the hymen breaks and your man ejaculate inside, it might lead to pregnancy so its better to take precautions before it’s too late.
10. Only sex within marriage is fruitful
People think that marriage is a license of having sex. One can get indulge in unhealthy sex too after marriage(without proper precaution). You just need to be comfortable with your own self to have sex. As long as you are happy doing it, all kind of sex is healthy.
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11. You should only lose it with the one you love
It’s not a sin or anything which is bad, unless you are comfortable with your sex partner.
Many people have their fantasy they will copulate with the person whom they love but at time when one don’t love the person yet they long for their touch, it depends upon the priority.
Don’t let the notion of society ruin your perception, live your life in a way which could make you happy forever.
