Woman Asks Internet To Choose The Right Husband For Her Among 14 Guys, Sparks Online Debate

Finding an eligible bachelor has become a pursuit that many start with the intention of finding a permanent spouse. However, in a world with limitless possibilities and various people, this pursuit often takes us on a lengthy and self-reflective journey. The idea of an “eligible bachelor” may change based on cultural conventions and personal preferences. But, the fundamental desire to connect with a compatible partner endures as a common aspiration.

Before beginning the search, it is necessary to think about oneself and have a clear understanding of each other. Knowing oneself makes it easier to discern one’s own relationship needs and priorities, which serves as a compass while seeking a compatible mate. That’s why, going on blind dates or communicating before getting marriage has slowly become a need rather than a fashion.

Needless to say, communication is the key to every happy relationship, and finding a suitable partner is no different. Good communication requires attentively listening to the opinions and requirements of partners as well as articulating one’s wants and expectations. Conversations that are honest and open allow people to connect on a true level, creating a climate of trust and understanding.

Notably, the advent of internet connection has made communication simpler than ever. Although it seems too wonderful to be true, it also has a number of drawbacks. Similarly, a woman’s recent confession about eligible bachelors hunting was extensively disseminated on social media. It has prompted a discussion on the dynamics of contemporary partnerships.

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Woman asked netizens to find the most eligible groom among 14 prospective bachelors

A woman recently went viral on Twitter after making a confession about her encounters with 14 different guys. The BCom graduate mentioned that she is now jobless and used matrimonial service to find an eligible bachelor for herself.

The 29-year-old woman’s statement stressed her unemployment and highlighted her educational background. She openly acknowledged talking to 14 men on the site and expressed her uncertainty about which one to pursue further. She also provided information on the employers, places, and whereabouts of these males.

The individuals worked at high-profile organizations like Byju’s, Flipkart, Deloitte, and TCS. Their salaries range from Rs 14 lakh to Rs 45 lakh annually. Yet in her confession, the woman made no mention of her own location or background.

Here’s how I approach this

Girl is 29 yr old jobless BCOM. For such a girl most of the below options are too good to be safe

For instance, Why is 45 LPA guy or a doc vying for her? Unless guys have some major shortcomings

Under 30 & under 20 LPA seems a realistic bet (no 14) pic.twitter.com/UXa6KZd2rK

— Dr Blackpill (@darkandcrude) July 18, 2023

Her confession generated a range of responses on Twitter, with many people wondering why she had not sought employment at her age.

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One user observed that since most people finish their BCom degrees by the time they are 21–22 years old, they would be more interested in learning about her seven years of activity. They implied that it would be fine even if she had accepted a job with little salary.

Another user stated that each of the males had links with about 56 other women, making the interactions ultimately shallow. They further asserted that information like age, salary, and skin tone is frequently inflated or even fabricated, much like resumes.

Below are some reaction people shared on Twitter

I feel bad for the guy at BCG. 😅

He’s probably going to end up being picked in this weird Swayamvar

And will have to spend his life with her

— Bharat Kumar Ramesh (@rbkayz) July 17, 2023

feminism is dead here 😂

— Finance💰 Films 🎬 Tech 📱 (@souvikdas17) July 18, 2023

Alarming and a bit saddening.
IMO, arranged marriage is more like a transaction nowadays.
I choose to remain Single and happy until someone organically comes along.

— Dr Ameya Kale (@DrAmeyaKale) July 18, 2023

Where are the guys? All you have are numbers 😂, so looks, health and habits really don’t matter anymore?

— Nitin Kishore (@Nitin_wysiwyg) July 18, 2023

These guys have way more options than this unemployed girl but she thinks she gets to pick lol😂

— Rahul (@rahul__ra) July 17, 2023

She is 29,BCom and not working and still 14 people are interested in her. 😳
I’m looking for those people who told me पढ़ाई लिखाई कर लो अच्छा लड़का/ घर मिलेगा। 😡
How matrimony world works is surely beyond me 🙈

— Antra Kalpana Asthana (@Chosenbymagic) July 17, 2023

What do you think about this?