Some societal stigmas are so deeply rooted in the environment that it is baffling. Women are always expected to conform to the roles society perceives them to play. If you have watched the Bollywood movie Cocktail then you must surely remember Deepika Padukone’s role.
In the film, Deepika Padukone‘s character Veronica was portrayed as a very bold, outspoken one, exactly what people would call “too much”. She used to drink like a fish and had clothes all over her floor. Although she made a decent living, she wasn’t really the stereotypical gharelu aurat. To be more likable and desirable for Gautam and his mother Veronica had to tone down her actual “too much” self a little. She was seen wearing salwars and kurtas, dedicating time for poojas, trying her hands at the laundry, and cooking biriyani to win Gautam’s heart.
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Recently, a tweet throwing shade at women drinking nowadays has gathered attention on Twitter
This idea of women being docile is fed to the audience so as to be more desirable and loved for ages. A woman has to fit into the ‘sanskaari’ stereotype: cook, clean, wear traditional clothes, don’t be loud, don’t drink, be soft-spoken and the list goes on. This idea is so etched into our minds that mindless jokes about loud or opinionated women are normalized.
A guy on Twitter wrote that women nowadays can drink like their dads but can’t cook like their moms.
Girls nowadays can drink
like their father, but can’t
cook like their mother.— Akash Prazapati (@prazapatizi) April 17, 2023
Here is how women reacted to this sexist tweet
I can cook like my mom and grandmom and drink like my father too… aab bolo!! Aur kya kar ke dikhana hai?
— Scottish Ladki 🚀 (@scottishladki) April 17, 2023
Then What’s stopping boys from going to the kitchen and cooking for themselves !?
— ~Neeeedhheeeee ♡~ (@Neeedhheeee__30) April 17, 2023
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Boys can drink like their father but can’t cook like their mother since always.
— Sakshi Narula (@mssakshinarula) April 18, 2023
Guys can drink like their father but can’t cook like their mother
— Mishreyable (@shrey_a_7) April 17, 2023
Men used to go to wars. Men nowadays crib about women instead.
— 🔅JoJo’s big sis🔅 (@lokhhimeye) April 18, 2023
All these cooking lectures are only for girls? Men like these can starve to d*ath who cares. https://t.co/G39JZJHhVV
— PS ⚡️ (@Neelaasapphire) April 20, 2023
Cooking is a basic life skill yet men like you can’t cook but y’all are ready to open your mouth to speak nonsense 🥱 https://t.co/us2KhcOh7X
— Riya |CSK💛| (@StanlessRio) April 20, 2023
Majority of men can’t cook when cooking is literally a life saving skill not a gender thing 💀 https://t.co/NEyFuvnHS7
— maxxx⁹¹ (@louissaturdays) April 19, 2023
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I can drink like my mother, earn like my father, cook like my mother and invest like my father. My man cant drink like his father, cant cook like his mother, can earn like his father, but saves like his mother! Whats your point!!! https://t.co/oaBsCTVJMy
— Pooja (@poohjaanena) April 19, 2023
What is your take on this tweet? Let us know in the comments.
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